The Pure Wand by nJoy is one of the most reviewed toys in the world of sex bloggers and toy enthusiasts. Possibly even more notorious than the Pure Plug, which was our choice for all-around best metal butt plug.
So does it live up to all the hype?
Pretty much, yeah. It’s luxurious, solid, and heavy. The curved shaped makes a great handle, and provides excellent leverage for g-spotting or targeting the prostate. Couple it with a powerful clit vibrator, and you’ll have some of the best orgasms of your life.
All the elements of design in the Pure Wand really work together, such as:
- The curved handle – the design not only looks great, the curved handle gives you leverage to really ‘hit the spot’ by yourself or with a partner.
- The bulbed heads – provide stimulation going in, but also allow you to pinpoint onto erogenous zones. The small end actually delivers more pressure due to the smaller surface area.
- The stainless steel – has unique temperature properties and feels cool going in. The hardness of the steel further helps transmit waves of pleasure through the toy and into your body.
Everything about this stainless steel dildo was designed for both form and function, and it excels in both categories. We both found uses for the toy in our own solo play, and also both had fun using on each other for some incredible orgasms.
We’ve only had the Pure Wand for one week as we write this, and we can already tell it’s going to be a part of our ‘main rotation’ for a very long time.
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- Double trouble - a small end and a large end allows you to warm up slow, and move on to bigger things when you're ready.
- Luxury aesthetics - the polished steel and elegant curves looks like a work of art.
- Weight - the weight of the Pure Wand feel solid in your hands, and adds to the stimulation it provides.
- Hits all the spots - we found the Pure Wand to be excellent at both vaginal and anal play.
- Powered by 100% elbow grease - the Pure Wand lets you explore your body in a way that overly-powerful vibrating toys don't.
- Do we have to put something here? The only downside is that the weight and curvature of the wandcan make it hard to multitask with your other hand.
Like Driving a Stick Shift (In a Good Way)
We had heard good things about the Pure Wand before getting to try it ourselves, and when we finally did try it, it lived up to our expectations!
We loved that it was just so versatile and useful in so many sexy situations (we’ll get into more detail below). Topped off with the luxurious aesthetic and the weight of the stainless steel, and we were just really impressed by the Pure Wand.
Using the Pure Wand is like driving a stick vs automatic transmission. Sure, driving stick is a little more work – but you get to really know your car and you can get better performance out of it if you know what you’re doing.
It definitely makes the short list of regular use toys that we keep within reach of the bed at all times, which is doubly handy because it’s heavy enough to double as a home intruder defense weapon in the event that we ever need one!
Luxuriously shiny stainless steel
The main draw of this toy is the luxurious polished stainless steel. It lends the wand its classy and luxurious aesthetic, but also provides a handful (literally) of material properties.
First off, steel is hard – which means you can use the dildo to pinpoint pleasure spots on yourself or your partner, something the rounded ends make incredibly easy.
Secondly, it’s heavy – much heavier than an equivalent silicone toy. That added weight means you get some incredible sensations you don’t get with other materials. It tips the scales at 1.5 pounds, and you really feel that extra weight as the toy slides inside you.
Before we get too much further, here are the dimensions of the Pure Wand:
- 8 inches from tip to tip. However in actual use about 4-5 inches of the toy are insertable at any given time. Plenty long to hit the g-spot or prostate.
- 1 inch diameter at the small end (.75 inch neck)
- 1.5 inch diameter at the large end (1 inch neck)
Finally, temperature properties. Steel goes in cool and takes a couple of minutes to warm up, which can be a pro or a con depending on your point of view. We never felt it was jarringly cold even when used without any warm up.
The Pure Wand can also be pre-heated or cooled for even more exciting sensations. Just be careful going too far with the temperature play!
We also give nJoy bonus points for the luxurious storage case. This will help keep your Pure Wand safe from scratches and gives you a nice way to store it in your bedside table or sex toy box. It also really adds to the luxury look of the toy and starts things off with a great impression.
Targeted pressure on the right spots
Everything about this toy is just so elegantly designed, from the overall look to the little engineering details that really put it over the top.
The curved handle makes the toy easy to grab from a variety of angles, and the shaft of the handle is slightly flattened to make gripping easier with slippery hands. And the shape of the spherical bulbed ends really lets you deliver precise pressure to your or your partner’s erogenous zones.
We’ll get into it more below, but so far we’ve found 3 great techniques to using the Pure Wand to target the G-spot or prostate:
- Raking – moving the wand back and forth applying constant pressure to one of the heads
- Dabbing – pressing in and out, like you’re tapping morse code into your partner’s most sensitive areas
- Holding – constant, heavy pressure also feels amazing with the Pure Wand, especially nearing orgasm as muscular contractions and spasms start to happen
I’ll be up front: I’ve never been the type of gal to get off on internal vaginal stimulation alone. I need something strong, like a magic wand or a suction toy on my clit to really get off.
That’s also partly because no dildo or vibrator ever really measured up to the real thing. The Pure Wand also doesn’t feel like the real thing – it’s a unique sensation entirely in its own class! Apples and oranges.
First off: the weight. It’s much heavier than any other penetrating toy (or penis) I’ve tried. That, combined with the bigger head gives me a nice internal feeling of fullness.
Secondly: the steel and the curves. It’s simultaneously hard and soft at the same time. The hardness of the steel lets me really work around my G-spot, and the smooth contours never made the pressure overbearing as you might expect from something so firm.
When we first started using the wand, he warmed it up by licking and then gently massaging my clit with the small round end, which was a major turn on.
Definitely be gentle when trying this technique due to the weight of the wand!
I have yet to have a strong orgasm using just the Pure Wand by itself, but when used in tandem with a clit or suction vibe – holy hell! I had several Os in rapid succession once I found the right rhythm with the wand in my right hand and a vibrator in my left.
But, as mentioned above, I’m not the type to ever have purely vaginal orgasms, and we’ve only had the wand for about a week so far. I’ll keep you updated if anything changes.
I also really loved using it on him – why don’t you tell them about that?
Yeah, uh… I came within 60 seconds of her first using the big end on my prostate.
Seriously, this thing is amazing for prostate play, with or without a partner. The small head is only 1 inch in diameter, so it’s thin enough to lube up and slide right in with little effort.
Once in, you can warm up your prostate with the raking motion we described above. We found that 2-3 minutes was plenty to get me really relaxed and loosened up, ready for the large side.
Then the big head – at 1.5 inches max diameter it’s enough to give you a decent stretch as it slides into place. But again, it wasn’t difficult at all with some silicone lube and the sleek surfaces of the toy.
And once inside, she started to rake and dab around my prostate while going down on me. As I started to come, she applied firm, steady pressure which took my orgasm to new heights.
Once your asshole is nice and relaxed you can also go full “ramming speed” and pop the bulbed ends in and out in rapid succession, which feels incredible over the smooth curves of the toy.
I also enjoy using the wand on her. I think it’s sexy watching the thick end pop into her pussy, and the raking motion seems to be really effecting at hitting the G-spot. The curve makes it a little cumbersome to use while going down on her, but overall it’s not a big deal.
So yeah, needless to say, we love it.
Oh yeah, and you can use it as an actual, literal massager to work out kinks and tight spots in your partner’s back. We tried.
See What Others Are Saying About the Pure Wand
As of the time of writing, the Pure Wand has an average rating of 4.6 / 5 stars on Amazon with 400 reviews, which is a damn impressive track record.
Originally designed for prostate stimulation, the Pure Wand quickly caught on with women around the sexual world as they realized the weight of the toy led to powerful vaginal orgasms. One common theme we see with other reviewers is the ability of the Pure Wand to make a girl squirt:
And another positive female reviewer who didn’t squirt, but did have powerful orgasms:
Pure Wand FAQs
Is the packaging discreet?
Yes! It’s shipped in a plain brown cardboard box, and is stored inside the box in the silken storage case. It’s all very discreet and luxurious.
How heavy is it?
The Pure Wand clocks in at 1.5 lbs (680g). The added weight provides a lot of stimulation on its own, one of our favorite aspects of the toy and part of what makes it so amazing.
What are the dimensions of the nJoy Pure Wand?
8 inches from tip to tip. The small end is max 1 inch diameter, while the large end is 1.5 inches max diameter. The neck on the small end is about .75 inches, and the neck on the large end tapers down from 1 inch.
How should I store my Pure Wand?
Definitely away from other hard or sharp objects! The steel is very sturdy, but you don’t want to do anything that could nick or scratch the smooth surface.
Luckily, the Pure Wand comes with a hard-exterior, soft satin interior case for quick and easy bedside storage.
How do I clean it?
Stainless steel is easy to clean – a simple rub down in warm, soapy water should do. If you need to 100% sterilize you can also boil it for 3-5 minutes, but be careful – it’ll be hot coming out!
You can even toss your Pure Wand in the top rack of your dishwasher, like any other stainless steel kitchen utensil.
Does the Pure Wand get slippery / hard to hold?
A little – the smooth stainless steel can slip around a little bit if your fingers are lube-y, combined with the weight of the toy. However, the handle on the wand isn’t perfectly round – it’s a bit flatter on the top and bottom, allowing you to maintain a grip on the wand even in slippery situations.
nJoy Pure Wand: Final Review
We had high expectations before even trying the Pure Wand, and it still blew us away. The cold steel feels amazing upon insertion, and the toy is contoured in all the right ways to hit your pleasure spots. The weight of the steel really provides a unique sensation you just don’t get with silicone dildos.
Whether you’re using it on yourself or with a partner, you’re bound to find multiple amazing ways to use the Pure Wand.